Category Archives: I Have Today

Filling the Spaces

  I mentioned my 6-year-old toothless beauty in a post a few weeks ago. I must admit, I’m a little obsessed with her. At night instead of me reading to her, she reads to me. That’s what happens when suddenly … Continue reading

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From a Kid Who Isn’t Known

Before I started my Hands Free journey, I put off living. I banked on vacations and holidays to make up for the lack of time spent connecting with the people I love. The other 349 days of the year I … Continue reading

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The Secret to Keeping Track of Life

* This post is dedicated to the 26 courageous and beautiful heros of Sandy Hook Elementary whose lives were tragically cut short on Friday, December 14th. May we honor their lives by striving to make the moments count in the … Continue reading

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The Gift That Matters

 From a very young age, my oldest daughter has been a gift giver. Like most children, her offerings consisted of items that adults wouldn’t ordinarily classify as gifts. Broken seashells, traumatized frogs, dying weeds, and misshapen rocks were often presented … Continue reading

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Today Let Me Appreciate

The message came in late one night. My husband and I had just arrived home from a wonderful evening with dear friends. Thanks to the lingering warmth of flavorful sangria and the company of those I love, I felt peaceful … Continue reading

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How to Expand a Heart

In previous posts, I’ve mentioned that my family got a kitten. Although saying we “got” a kitten doesn’t really do justice to the providential manner in which Banjo came into our lives. I have been drafting this post in my … Continue reading

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Remembering Sunscreen and Butterflies

When I decided to share my “Hands Free” journey with an online community, I had no idea what insight this would bring me. There I was striving to grasp what really matters and it appeared, what matters most in life, … Continue reading

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Hope for the Imperfect Parent

 A few months ago, I received an email message from a reader of my blog. It immediately got my attention due to the fact it was from a “Hands Free” dad, and it contained 3,385 words. A stranger named Brian … Continue reading

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XO Before You Go

Sometimes I struggle with what “Hands Free” parts of my life to share with my readers. I often think, “This story is too simple; it doesn’t have some grand revelation or painful admission.” But over the last few weeks, tragic … Continue reading

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A Year From Now

If I had to name one activity that my daughters enjoyed doing most in 2011, it would be sliding down the hill behind our house. My children slid down the hill for the first time in February 2011 and haven’t … Continue reading

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