Category Archives: What I Would Have Missed

When Life Isn’t Pretty

*name has been changed Just before the new year, a popular monthly publication requested permission to publish “Loving a Child Through the Challenges of Life” in their spring edition.  As if this opportunity weren’t surreal enough, it would include a … Continue reading

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At the End of the Day What Really Matters

This week is my birthday week, but honestly I feel like my gift came early. In fact, since receiving this gift 43 days ago, I’ve used it every single night. I share this gift with anyone striving to keep track … Continue reading

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A Year of Ordinary Achievement

Each time I am at the start line of a running race I feel a little tightening in my chest – a little nervousness that lets me know my competitive edge, although softened a bit, has not completely disappeared. This … Continue reading

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The Secret to Keeping Track of Life

* This post is dedicated to the 26 courageous and beautiful heros of Sandy Hook Elementary whose lives were tragically cut short on Friday, December 14th. May we honor their lives by striving to make the moments count in the … Continue reading

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How to Build Up a Child

Some of the best parenting lessons I’ve learned came to me before I was a parent. I didn’t know I was receiving them at the time – but now, when I am in action with my children, these invaluable lessons … Continue reading

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The Imperfect Approach to Living Life

My six-year-old joined our local YMCA swim team last June. It feels strange to even type that sentence knowing her “history” with water. This is the child who let out agonizing cries while her hair was being washed until age … Continue reading

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How to Expand a Heart

In previous posts, I’ve mentioned that my family got a kitten. Although saying we “got” a kitten doesn’t really do justice to the providential manner in which Banjo came into our lives. I have been drafting this post in my … Continue reading

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Less Worry, More Life

The other night, my 6-year-old daughter asked to see a picture of herself in her crib. We opened iPhoto and started our search in 2006, the year of her birth. However, with the click of one video, the desire to … Continue reading

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Reaching Your Child In a World of Distraction

At my very first “Hands Free” speaking engagement, a woman in attendance said her children were getting to the age where they just wanted to do their own thing. She felt that the older her children grew, the more difficult … Continue reading

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What a “Hands Free” Fall Looks Like

It all started with an innocent glass jar filled with heavy cream. I watched as my 9-year-old daughter shook and shook with excitement until … ta-da! Real butter! She even made a batch of toast so the whole family could … Continue reading

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