being present

The Softest Parts of Ourselves Don’t Need Erased

“Come on in,” the gray-haired gentleman waved from the middle seat of aisle 10 on my flight headed home. I…
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This is How We Stay Human: Two Short Stories

Lately, I’ve been noticing how the most ordinary moments can hold something steady and life-giving when I need it most….
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I Will Not Leave You Stranded

It was my 22-year-old daughter’s first Vrbo reservation. With no hotels near the half Ironman site, renting a small house…
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What If the Last 21 Days Could Change Everything?

Tomorrow begins the final 21 days of the year. A small window of time… and yet, I’ve recently witnessed how…
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Less Pressure, More Spark September

I’ve never made a summer bucket list. Creating a list of things I want to do or places I want…
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Uncomplicated Summer Guidance

Since the last time I wrote to you in this space, I’ve been hearing better – and I don’t mean…
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I want to make memories, not to-do lists. I want to feel the squeeze of loving arms, not the pressure of over-commitment. I want to get lost in conversation with my favorite people, not consumed in a sea of unimportant emails. I want to be overwhelmed by sunsets that give me hope, not by overloaded agendas that steal my joy. I want the noise of my life to be a mixture of laughter & gratitude, not the intrusive buzz of mobile phones & text messages. I’m letting go of distraction, perfection, & pressure to grasp what really matters. I’m living Hands Free. Will you join me? (Read More)

“After attending one of Rachel’s speaking events, I am finding myself pausing more and re-setting my reactions to my spouse and children as a result of reflecting on the situations and lessons Rachel shared. Her decision to reveal the good, the bad, and the ugly, and what she’s learned as she’s worked to transform herself, has lasting impacts on her audience. Rachel’s lessons are like ripples in the ocean as they help others like me move towards choosing love and coming as we are. Rachel works wonders by helping others work wonders.” –A Hands Free Mama in progress