dealing with change

I Won’t Give You a Reason the Bad Thing Happened. I’ll Give You Something Better

You can do everything “right” and things can still go horribly wrong. I am facing this. I am embracing this. …
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Returning the Cart and the Truth About Parenting with Long-Haul Hope

I recently got cleared by my podiatrist to take a fifteen-minute walk outside. That sentence does not adequately express the…
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Not Where You Want to Be, But Still Here

“I’m not where I want to be.” Those words seem to keep coming up,in my mindin conversations in the world as…
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The Most Toxic Role and How to Release It Now

“It’s everything I am and what I’m notAnd all I’m trying to be.”-Sara Bareilles, Little Voice I never know what is…
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The ‘Best Ever’ Cake and Feeling Capable This December

I made the BEST EVER chocolate sheet cake this week, and I need to tell you a little story about…
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How to Get Located When It’s All Falling Down

Wherever I walk, I see trees down. Unlike in the days right after the tropical storm came through on October…
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I want to make memories, not to-do lists. I want to feel the squeeze of loving arms, not the pressure of over-commitment. I want to get lost in conversation with my favorite people, not consumed in a sea of unimportant emails. I want to be overwhelmed by sunsets that give me hope, not by overloaded agendas that steal my joy. I want the noise of my life to be a mixture of laughter & gratitude, not the intrusive buzz of mobile phones & text messages. I’m letting go of distraction, perfection, & pressure to grasp what really matters. I’m living Hands Free. Will you join me? (Read More)

“After attending one of Rachel’s speaking events, I am finding myself pausing more and re-setting my reactions to my spouse and children as a result of reflecting on the situations and lessons Rachel shared. Her decision to reveal the good, the bad, and the ugly, and what she’s learned as she’s worked to transform herself, has lasting impacts on her audience. Rachel’s lessons are like ripples in the ocean as they help others like me move towards choosing love and coming as we are. Rachel works wonders by helping others work wonders.” –A Hands Free Mama in progress